Two Years Old

I've decided that the one of the biggest problems with having a two year old that has drop seizures is that he also has the tendency to have drop tantrums! Now every time he goes down, my heart skips a beat and I give him way too much attention. I have to stop and remind myself that all the good parenting books tell me to ignore that kind of behavior! What's a mom to do? I just hope my heart can survive the stress!